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I have a theory regarding interacting with other people's profiles. As many of you may have noticed, when you like or comment someone's status, within a few hours to a few days, you may see them rise all the way to the top 5 rows of your friends list(if they aren't there already). They will usually stay there for a day or for several days to a week, or even a few weeks. Then, if they are people you don't interact often with, they will retreat to your second set of friend rows for a couple of days, or right back to their original positions.
However, I feel as if there might be some mutual interaction, from their part, to have them temporarily move up to your top 5 rows in the first place. For the past week, I've been liking and commenting more than a dozen people that I don't usually interact with on a regular basis, and I see them fill up my top 5 rows, until I see 1-2 people out of the 15 left that usually stay on my top 5. I've also been having several sets of top 5 rows on my friends list asas well(thus different sets of top 8). I think at least 3 different ones I can count on the top of my head.
1. I liked a muscians profile status(he has +4000 friends, and reguarly gets maybe a dozen likes or comments on his profile), and within a few hours he rose up to my second set of friends (which is row 6 to 13). I was fascinated to why he didn't rise up to the top 5 rows, while a vast majority of people I DID like/comment their statuses, did. A couple days ago, again I tested, and I liked another status update.. Within a few hours, I noticed he finally went up to my top 5 rows! 2. I added my mom on fb about 3 weeks ago, and I immediately shared a funny photo on her profile. I showed it to her a few days later(she doesn't always check everyday), but I noticed on my friends list, she still stayed all the way down on my friends list. 2 weeks later, I liked one of her photos, and I tagged myself in a family photo she uploaded a long time ago. But still, she didn't rise up to my top 5 rows, or even my second set of friends rows(for me, its rows 6-13, <--second set of top friends is different for everyone btw.. Depends how large your friends list is)! I don't know if she ever visited my profile, but this really is a strange scenario.
These (at least two) different cases makes me suspect that, when you interact with someone on fb(mainly commenting and photos), they will bump all the way to your top 5 rows, but only after they've interacted with you somehow(either commenting or liking your commenting your status on their status/photo, or viewing your profile).
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